I am really disappointed in people and thank God I don’t have to date! I read Dating Secret Exposed: Why Nice Guys Finish Last by April Masini and if there were any nice guys out there, after reading this they will probably recede. If women are so shallow they deserve what they accept and it’s no wonder the divorce rate is so high. I can’t imagine why anyone would want to date a jerk.
If you haven’t guessed, I am a take control kind of person and try to do what I want. If I was looking for a long term relationship I would want someone who is going to respect me and not go around behind my assist. If I was looking for a trot than yeah, a dreadful boy would be perfect. Either the author of Dating Secret Exposed: Why Nice Guys Finish Last is married and doesn’t respect marriage (longing to date again) or she is perpetually single, not in a serious relationship, unprejudiced dating.
I have a friend who likes the bad boy type. She’s going into divorce number three. Need I say more?
Bad Boys are Bad Boys for a reason. They don’t ever really “settle” down. They constantly think of themselves and are a bigger child than any three year old. The relationship will be all about them. You will probably have to look a certain way and dress the way they want. What is that going to do for you?
The type of person you want in your life PERMANENTLY will probably not be a bad boy. Do you really want someone who doesn’t think about you for the rest of your life? If you are just looking to date forever this article is perfect. It really depends on what you want from life.
Nice guys don’t finish last when it comes to being married and having families. Nice guys won’t get the bad girl but again all that will do for them is leave them heartbroken anyway. Nice guys will want to get the girl next door and settle down and have a family. The nice guy will put you on a pedestal and make sure you are comfortable every day. Don’t you want to be special? Don’t you deserve to be treated like a princess?
After the “nice guy” has treated you good and you have decided whether or not he is your type, remember to be just as good to him as he is to you. For a relationship to last the people in the relationship have to be friends, best friends.
